David Bennett

David Bennett

David Bennett is a relationship expert, and has been a dating and relationship coach for over 8 years. He is listed in the top ten personal coaches for 2019, and is the author of seven self-help books. He has been featured in over 400 publications and other media appearances, including The Chicago Tribune, The Boston Globe, Men's Health, Bustle, Prevention, and Woman's Day.

Posts by David Bennett

How To Put The Fun Back In Dating

When I was a teacher, a lot of my colleagues took the view that if the students were having fun, they couldn’t be learning! I sometimes kept my view of such asininity (yes, that’s a word) to myself, because I honestly can’t think of a dumber view of learning! The reality is that research shows

Ways To Get Over Your Ex And Move On To Find Love

A good friend of mine recently broke up with his girlfriend, for very good reasons. He set certain appropriate boundaries related to how he deserved to be treated, and she frequently violated those boundaries. However, after he ended it, he was a mess. He developed a strong desire, almost manic, to social media stalk her,

Do Some Dating App Companies Even Want You To Get A Date??

As part of my business, I keep up on dating apps and what they are up to, simply because so many people use them (or feel they have no choice). And, I have wondered if dating app companies even care if anybody gets a date. At least they used to pretend to, but when I

The Science Behind Why It’s So Hard To Get Over Your Ex

A buddy of mine met a nice woman on Tinder. Her ex had ended the relationship and she was getting back into the dating scene. She couldn’t stand her ex fiance. He was narcissistic, going on numerous dates with employees he was supposed to be managing, and even though she was in many ways the

Your Body Language May Be Limiting Your Chances At Love

You can’t stop thinking about him. In your mind, he’s the perfect guy. You’ve stared at for months at work. He has the sweetest smile and everyone loves him. One day, he finally visits your department! And, when is walking by…you freeze and cross your arms. Then you see him walk into the gym! He

Podcast Episode 9: Cognitive Distortions and Dating

As many of you already know, we have a podcast, Disruptive Love, and we just released episode 9, with special guest Joshua Wagner. In this episode, we focus on cognitive distortions, and how they impact your love life, dating, and relationships. What are cognitive distortions? They are irrational, limiting thoughts that your brain automatically sends

The Importance of Trust In Dating and Relationships

One of the biggest issues in modern dating and relationships is trust. You may think, “well, yeah, that’s obvious. Trust has always been a concern!” But, social media and dating apps have changed the nature of the game. Many guys often wonder why they will match with a beautiful woman on Tinder, send a few