Can Chemistry Grow and Develop? Should You Feel It Immediately?

I spend some time on dating and relationship forums, and it seems like almost daily people are asking questions about chemistry. The two most common questions are related, so I want to address them here. They are “can chemistry develop?” and “should you feel chemistry by a certain time?” like on a first date (or

Dating Up: Stop Settling and Find the Person of your Dreams

There is a lot written about “dating down” on the internet, probably because it’s pretty easy to tell when you’re dating beneath you. However, there isn’t as much on “dating up.” In fact, the whole concept is surrounded by an aura of impossibility. When I talk to my coaching clients, many feel they can’t even

9 Relationship and Dating Green Flags To Find An Amazing Partner

Thousands upon thousands of articles have been written about red flags and why not to date someone. However, I’ve discovered that constantly looking for red flags can actually be counterproductive. Why? No one is perfect and you will absolutely find red flags. This can often lead to a “build the perfect partner” mentality where good

8 Signs You Are Settling in an Unhappy Relationship

When I worked in retail one summer, I got to know an older employee who had worked at the company for nearly twenty years. She was sweet and kind. One day she told me how she graduated at the top of her class and started working at the department store to save up for college.

Where To Meet Potential Dates In The Real World

Many of our coaching clients are quite rightly fed up with online dating, and want to meet people in “the real world.” We oblige. They think that we will provide them with magical places or locations that are just teeming with single, eligible, and attractive people who are also outgoing enough to initiate a conversation,

9 Tips to Meet Strangers in the Real World

One of the most common complaints I hear from my clients is that there is no one for them to date. Firstly, most of them have tried online dating and hate it. They can’t stand the scammers, liars, fakes, flakes, and general mentality. But, they feel like they have no options because they’re out of

Mindset Is The Key To Meeting People In Real Life

Most single people I know are fatigued from online dating. The online dating situation is increasingly bad because of crappy algorithms and the general unnatural nature of online dating. Yet, when I suggest getting off apps and meeting people in real life is the way to go, they start explaining the “obvious” reasons why they

Want To Find True Love? Ditch Online Dating And Get In The Real World

Imagine a new world of dating where: -People can’t lie about height, weight, and other aspects of physical appearance -You can actually tell if a person is real or a catfish -You can know if you’re compatible with someone before you go on the first date -You can experience important aspects of dating like scent,

Can’t Find Love Online? It’s Not You; It’s The Algorithms

When I was in 8th grade, my school thought it would be a great idea for us students to fill out a questionnaire and run all of them through computer matchmaking software, and then give us a sheet of compatible people. This was in the era of floppy disks, but nonetheless, I had a strange

Get Noticed: Writing A Successful Online Dating Profile

Dating profiles run the gamut from amazing to painful. The amazing ones are the people you’d like to date, while the painful ones can elicit a left swipe and hopefully a good laugh (unless, of course, you’re the one with a painfully bad profile). But, most of the profiles are in what could be called